On Being Different | A Story

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I live and work in a "small" city. "Small" in the respect that most (many) state capitals are normally larger than what Boise, Idaho rates. Living in a smallish town comes with its benefits- it's amazing how many people know other people. Works well for word of mouth referrals when many of our clients know at least one other person getting married in the near future. However, it also can work against us, because everyone tends to be and act like everyone else....because we're a small town. If one person or company steps outside of the box, everyone knows about it. Let me tell a little story about my background with Soiree.

 Soiree via Tana Photography

My business background started with the question, "Why". As cliche as it is, I was a bride in 2005, and Soiree was born in 2006. Having just blown in from a few years in Seattle, I came back to Boise with dreams of my urban loft wedding.  But you know what? Most of those wedding dreams weren't realized, mostly due to the resources available and vendors I was working with at the time. I got married on a sunny September day, and I was exhausted that night because I had done most everything myself. So while on my honeymoon, the wheels were already turning. Why couldn't I have what I wanted? What made it so hard to have the type of wedding I wanted in Boise? Fast forward a year later, after an intense event management course, my question turned into Why Not.  Why couldn't a Boise bride have what she wanted, even if Boise wasn't on the list for the biggest retailers (or, at the time, the biggest concert tours for that matter)? And so began Soiree. Created for a bride like myself. What began as a small wedding planning company in Boise evolved into a full scale event production boutique with weddings spanning from Boise to McCall and beyond.

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From there we continued to hone in on our craft, ideal client, and evolved even further into specializing in Idaho destination weddings; over half of our clients are planning their weddings from out of state. We have continually added unique services and exclusive products to our clients, because it's what they want. From guest concierge services to high end linens and custom furniture, we've created a company like no other in Boise. And we're proud to say we're not your grandma's wedding planner either.



Where am I going with this? I'm telling you this story because it hasn't been easy. At first everyone resisted. Vendors and clients alike. From "it's too expensive" to "it will just never appeal to this market", we've heard it all. And you know what? I succumbed to the negativity out of fear for a few years. I wasn't true to me or the reason I was doing this. And I started losing sight as to why I was even here. I didn't want to be just a wedding planner. I wanted to create real experiences, fulfill my clients emotionally and I wanted the guests at the parties my company hosted to talk. A lot. No one ever made history by being the same. So over the past two years we've ramped it up again and have only marketed to those clients and vendors that want that too. And the response has been lovely. People are still talking, and we've chosen to only listen to our clients. Because it's all about them anyways.

What ways are you changing the game in your city or town?

Inspiring Photo No. 45

How about an inspiring quote this Monday morning? Coco Chanel was an icon, no doubt about it. But I would also go so far to say she was a pioneer in several facets of the design industry- fashion, architecture, interior design, and this quote sums it up for me in wedding design too.


Our wedding season officially begins in about 10 days with a gorgeous event at Boise's Cathedral of the Rockies and historic Boise Depot. Then, two weeks later we head north to McCall for an eclectic, spring wedding at the lovely Shore Lodge. I think I speak for myself and my girls when I say we can't wait to show you what we've got in store this year! So stay tuned, and have a fabulous start to your week.

~Brandi

Seafoam | Dusty Shale| Purple

This week is all about what Kim is inspired by...and if I do say myself, I'm pretty smitten with the contrast of the soft seafoam, shale and purple, grounded by rustic wood. If you remember our post from last week, I have tasked the girls with putting together inspiration boards comprised of whatever trends, colors, patterns, or styles that catch their eye at that moment.

I was especially drawn to this board because of our McCall and Shore Lodge weddings we have this season- over half of our events on the books are in the pristine Payette Lake resort town. McCall is the perfect balance between relaxed and luxurious, and many of our events there have a subtle rustic feel to them. How about you? What do you love the most about this board? 

 Sources: 

1. Airy, asymmetrical dress from Anthropologie | 2.  Wood reception table | 3. & 4.- Table number and seafoam tie, unknown | 5. Purple balloons along an aisle

xx,

~Brandi

Inspiring Photo No. 44

Loving the stripes, loving the twirl, loving every inch of this...


~Happy Monday!

Trending | Wedding Menus

We are impressed with all of the different ways we've seen a wedding menu done of late. A traditional card tucked into the napkin is fine, but surprising your guests with a creative menu presentation is not only thrilling to the stomach, but to the eye as well. We are constantly trying to come up with new ways to do old things, and since food is so important to your guests' experience, we like to make the menu a star of the show too.






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Window panes are great for more than looking outside. Use them for menus, seating diagrams, escort cards, bar menus. 

Chalkboards never go out of style. Use small easels to place on each table. Or use big chalkboards as an entrance to a buffet like our Tablerock Wedding. In this case, the lettering was projected on to the board to match the same fonts as the wedding invitations.

We have a love of all things kraft, especially bags used as menus. We also love using items for double duty- in this case it's your reception menu and guest favors.

These menu books are gorgeous and also double as a place card. The more you use an item in different ways, the more bang for your buck.

A professional chalk lettering design just adds to the beauty, and as we mentioned in this post, we think it would be a very cool wall art in your home after the wedding. Once again, never underestimate the ways to get the most use out what you choose to put in your wedding!

Have any other great ideas for menus? Do share in the comments!

Blush | Champagne | Ombre

Currently loving these colors together- a little pink, a little champagne, taupe, and even a dusty blue is gorgeous. And the ombre effect (fancy term for the graduating colors) is something that is all over weddings and the runway right now. Each week I have the girls (Kimberly and Stephanie) put together inspiration boards based on whatever they're inspired by at that moment. I give them full creative license and they surprise me each week with their concepts; the only direction they get from me is how the borders look, because I'm perfectionistic like that. And perfectionistic is a word, in fact one that was on their job descriptions so they're ok with it.  This is Stephanie's beautiful creation this week- who wants to plan a glamorous wedding like this? We're open for business, let's chat.

1. Champagne and gold sequin gown | 2. Pastel bridesmaids dresses all in a row | 3. Ombre wedding cake | 4. Lovely amethyst ring | 5. Ruffled chiavari chair backs

~Happy Wednesday!

Inspiring Photo No. 43 + 501

Happy Monday...Hope you and your love have plans for tomorrow night- even if it's just a glass of wine.

Via

Today also marks our 501st post...I can't even believe it. This blog has been a source of inspiration, fun, and I won't even lie to you- frustration at times (I don't have a tech bone in my body). So thanks to our brides, clients, and future readers, we've been able to keep the blog going for so long. Also stay tuned this year as we perform some much needed TLC on the site, and we can't wait to add to the new look of both our website and our lifestyle blog. On that note here's to a lovely start to your week, and don't forget to give your honey an extra kiss tomorrow.

xx,

~Brandi

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